Compatibility match

Six questions, a ranked match list —no phone calls first.

Take a 90-second culture-fit quiz and see every verified sober living home in California ranked 0–100 against your answers. Matched lifestyle tags surface inline, and every card links straight to live bed availability.

My Sober Stay
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Editable answers, re-score anytime
Start the quizSee the six axes

What the scoring weighs

  • Recovery philosophy30%
  • Pet policy25%
  • Recovery phase15%
  • Curfew tolerance12%
  • Work schedule10%
  • Age range8%

How the quiz scores homes

Six axes, one weighted rubric.

Every home on My Sober Stay is scored against all six answers at once. Pets and philosophy carry the most weight — recovery phase, curfew, work schedule, and age refine the match.

  • 01

    Curfew tolerance

    Strict sign-ins, moderate on-site hours, or remote-friendly self-management.

  • 02

    Age range

    Mix with residents in your life stage — 18–25, 26–35, 36–50, or 50+.

  • 03

    Recovery philosophy

    12-Step, SMART Recovery, MAT-friendly, trauma-informed CBT, faith-based, or agnostic.

  • 04

    Pet policy

    No pets, cats only, dogs only, or full cats & dogs — match what you actually live with.

  • 05

    Work schedule

    W-2 day job, gig/night shift, remote flexible, or between jobs (RBH-funded placement).

  • 06

    Recovery phase

    Early (30–90 days), sustained (3–12 months), or long-term (12+ months).

A 90-second, six-axis culture-fit quiz. Answers stay editable — resubmit anytime.

Curfew toleranceHow strict is the house on evenings and sign-ins?
Age rangeWe'll weight the residents we think you'll click with.
Recovery philosophy12-Step, SMART, MAT-friendly, holistic, faith-based, or agnostic.
Pet policyCats, dogs, or none — pick what you'd actually live with.
Work scheduleDay job, gig / night shift, remote, or between jobs.
Recovery phaseEarly, sustained, or long-term — adjusts alumni / mentorship weight.

Your matches

Ranked by culture fit

Each home is scored 0–100 against your six answers. Click View this home to see live bed availability and apply.

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We score every home against all six axes at once — pets, philosophy, recovery phase, curfew tolerance, work schedule, and age range.